Are you trying to make new friends as an adult?

It can feel impossible.

But there's one big reason that can make it more complicated than what you might expect.

And that reason is personal growth.

Curious as to why?

As we grow, our values, interests, and priorities naturally shift. They reflect who we've become. And while that's beautiful, the challenge is that the people we used to feel at home with don't fit anymore.

Rest assured — it's normal. You've evolved. But the tricky part is that it can also leave you feeling disconnected and lonely. It's like you're in limbo. There's a gap between your old social circles and the new ones that more closely align with your new identity.

It's like being the new kid in town. You haven't found your tribe yet.

Don't despair!

Although it takes time to bridge this gap, staying focused is essential.

You're seeking people who "get" your new passions. You want friends who support the new direction your life is taking. And after all the growth you've been through, the last thing you want is to settle for unfulfilling friendships.

You're not alone.

If you're in this spot, it's okay. I've been there, too. I remember feeling like I was going through an identity crisis. But we must remember that it's simply part of growing. We need to give ourselves the space to explore where we fit now.

Be patient.

If you feel like making friends as an adult is challenging, remember that building new, meaningful friendships takes time and effort. You're not just finding people to hang with — you're looking for people you can do life with. And yeah, that takes time, but what's waiting for you on the other side is so worth it.

Celebrate how far you've come.

You've worked hard to get here. Honor that. Be proud of your courage and resilience. Because the right friendships are out there, waiting for the new you.

Stay strong,

Michelle